So it's the third date and somehow, in your exuberance to impress, you invite her over for dinner. As if the pressure of the third date wasn't bad enough now she's coming over to your house to see how you live? Yikes. As you start the slow panic that will become your existence for the next 72 hours, don't forget a crucial element to getting her in the right frame of mind: music. Below we've provided you with the ultimate—well, maybe not the ultimate—but a pretty damn good set list to help you seal the deal. This "sex mix tape" is only—only—to be played after dinner when you're both on the sofa having, well, dessert.

The songs were chosen with her in mind so stop rolling your eyes when you see a bunch of artists you wouldn't play in your home at gunpoint under normal circumstances. Look, she'll think you're sensitive —"I never knew you had this side to you"—so feel free to hide this collection from your Radiohead loving friends. This is for and about her.

Important tip: If you don't want to go to all of the trouble (and minor expense) of going to iTunes and uploading all of these songs to compile your boudoir soundtrack, get Maxwell's incredibly sexual CD, Maxwell's Urban Hang Suite, and hit the repeat button and you're good to go. Maxwell composed the record in three parts: foreplay, the act and after the act (what she often refers to as "cuddling"). With smokin' sexy tracks such as "Sumthin' Sumthin'," "...Til The Cops Come Knockin'" and "Whenever, Wherever, Whatever" this CD will live in your surround sound walls. Guaranteed.

Now start uploading songs, buddy—she's on her way and dinner ain’t ready.

The songs in alphabetical order by artist (rearrange at will):

50 Cent "Candy Shop"
Akon "Don't Matter"
Dierks Bentley "Come A Little Closer"
James Blunt "High"
Mariah Carey "We Belong Together"
Sheryl Crow "If It Makes You Happy"
Billy Currington "Must Be Doin' Somethin' Right"
Marvin Gaye "Sexual Healing"
Michael Jackson "Rock With You"
Alicia Keys "If I Ain't Got You"
John Mayer "Your Body Is A Wonderland"
George Michael "I Can't Make You Love Me"
Luis Miguel "No Se Tu"
Tim McGraw "She's My Kind Of Rain"
Sarah McLachlan "Building A Mystery"
Nelly + Tim McGraw "Over And Over"
Kelly Osbourne "One Word"
Prince "Cream"
Pussycat Dolls "Stickwitu"
Donna Summer "All Through The Night"
Justin Timberlake "What Goes Around..."
Luther Vandross "Superstar"
Mario Vazquez "I Bet"
Robbie Williams "No Regrets"
Elliott Yamin "Wait For You"